Sex and the Ivy - Latest Comments in To All The Men I Wouldn’t Fuck

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INLIKEWITHPURITANS — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 11:44:06 -0000

Lord the saviour complex has gotten out of control round here lately. I see a gift section coming soon, Commenting T-shirts stating "I wear a Crown of Thorns while I suffer for Lena's Sex". I think the responses here have proven why Lena's writing/cum shots are important- people still aren't comfortable splitting the difference between their views of sex and other's. People have different views on sex and THATS OKAY.
I think people are missing the boat when they expect someone to honour their personal, subjective views on sex or exposure. Criticize Lena's writing all you want, it can occasionally be a bit cloying, but the subject matter? Group think when it comes to sex is very not cool- group sex on the other hand......

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INLIKEWITHPURITANS — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 11:29:07 -0000

Jesus, a blog has this much power over your life? Please go ahead and find your own personal 'fag' and remove yourself from the blowjob pool. Okay Bunny

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brett — Sun, 02 Nov 2008 18:29:37 -0000

heh... obviously you don't remember me, Elle. Brett. remember now? yeah, I'm just here to point out the inaccuracy in your blog - while we didn't have intercourse, your cockteasing ass definitely did let me stick the tip in (I don't mean that I stuck the tip in your ass, just your pussy). I'll let you in on a little secret: even with just the head of my penis inside you, I could tell that you were pretty loose, that's why I didn't really give a fuck when you stopped the penetration when my head slipped in there. I'm not normally the type to brag about my sexual conquests online, but I couldn't resist correcting you.

advertising your celibacy when you've clearly got no problem with partial penetration is just lame in my opinion.

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yuif — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 15:42:51 -0000

fuck up

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Nate — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 04:01:57 -0000

"When I think of a sexually liberated woman, I envision someone who loves her body, who is aware of her own wants and needs, and who acts according to her own values and morals and not those of others."

Sounds an awful lot like Lena to me.

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Soulless Whartonite — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 00:55:01 -0000

Errr

I think your blowjob-summer is a misinterpretation of sorts. Sucking off a bunch of guys doesn't really constitute a victory on your end, especially if you're swallowing.

Furthermore, the picture with the semen on your face... I should first tell you that I've been reading this site longer than most. I'm really disappointed to see how things have changed and how you've chosen to handle certain situations.

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Jake — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 17:19:40 -0000

Really? I'd chose sex over just oral, although obviously both are great!

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Cynictron3030 — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 10:45:31 -0000

"i love this girl. honest and she doesn't give a shit. you go girl! :)"

^^^
That is EXACTLY what I'm talking about
It's a ridiculously poorly masked attempt at boosting one's bottomed out ego. It makes me laugh and blow smoke out my nose

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JD — Fri, 30 May 2008 23:50:28 -0000

If I lived close enough I'd track the bastard and beat him myself.

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JD — Fri, 30 May 2008 23:39:01 -0000

Oh, and he and my friend eventually ended up getting into a relationship together, yet he still supposedly slept with other chicks and various characters. Now my friend is scared shitless that she contracted some STD from this guy.

From what I hear, his background is scary...the background that he doesn't tell the hundreds of girls he fucks. He would put you to shame Lena.

No one deserves the hell that this guy put her through. Be cautious.

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JD — Fri, 30 May 2008 23:31:12 -0000

I am close friends with the girl he was sleeping with while he was also sleeping with Lena. He's a pathological liar and a cheat, amongst many other fine things.

She gave the asshole many chances, but he kept lying to her about his involvement with other 19-20 year old girls and escorts. He's 35 mind you. She told me that he has some serious problems that he's not getting help for, and I'm not surprised. He sounds like a sick dude.

Lena was lucky she got out before she could.

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SAMLOVER — Fri, 30 May 2008 20:28:49 -0000

And how awesome is it that she STILL constantly talks about her "ex-boyfriend" grad student from Penn (I know the guy, went to school with him) who was NEVER her boyfriend but just one of the obscure and unlimited number of fish in the sea of Lena's used men. Clearly she's not over the guy- never will be. What made him so special? Guarantee we'll see her writing about this any day now which is just more proof that she's obsessed (the very thing she claimed he was). It's fascinating how amazingly autobiographical her criticisms are.

Taking nothing away from that experience, he did say the sex was fucking AMAZING. Well, you know, when all she does is fuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuck and sucksucksucksuck she's bound to get good at it.

I also love how she STILL insists on blaming him for the "nude photo scandal" which she CLEARLY perpetrated herself. And did anyone notice how she just posted a bunch of nude pics of herself on chicktionary the other day? Ummmmm, hypocrite anyone?

Lena, Lena, Lena... really. Just be honest. For once. Everyone is SO TIRED of your inventions. We desperately want to like you, to be drawn to you for positive reasons... but we just... can't.

She's the ultimate self-saboteur.

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jjj — Thu, 29 May 2008 10:36:23 -0000

i love this girl. honest and she doesn't give a shit. you go girl! :)

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jeff — Wed, 28 May 2008 23:30:43 -0000

oh my god, four months without sex, you rebel!

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ko — Wed, 28 May 2008 09:53:51 -0000

I'm sure it just broke all their hearts you were giving them BJs.

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The Wise One — Mon, 26 May 2008 13:04:16 -0000

MattieHilaire, you are awesome. Thank you for stating what many of us felt but were unable to express: that Lena's blogs are ridiculous not because they are raunchy, but because they are pointless. I hope that somewhere out there, you have a blog that teaches women to be sexually liberal without damaging themselves.

HL also makes a good point about respectability. Someday, more likely than not, Lena will have to get a job. And more likely than not, employers will do a background check on her and find these tasteless photos, and reject her. Sure, people can say, "Oh, I don't want to work for any company who cares about such things," but most employers do care, and rightfully so. They do not want a person who cannot be trusted to treat herself and others with respect.

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Maria — Mon, 26 May 2008 11:34:29 -0000

Get over it. She is hardly a whore. Whore means exchange of sex for money. There's no evidence or indication she does any of that. For that matter, she's not a fame whore either.

She is a writer. She is transcribing her experiences on her personal platform. You can't criticize her for posting what she wants to. She isn't doing anything atypical of most college students. Don't hate Lena for writing about her life, and writing it well. If you have a problem with how she lives her life, then don't live your life the way she lives hers. She is entitled to do exactly as she pleases. She isn't harming anyone, and if you don't like it, stop reading.

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Low energy? Drink Haterade? — Mon, 26 May 2008 04:52:37 -0000

If Lena has no mission in writing about sex, why is she constantly claiming to be radical? Why would she bother including a statement at the bottom of her picture about how her _insert inconvenient and long non-label here_ wiped her mouth for her and kissed her with tongue, somehow demonstrating his deep respect for her by those acts and giving her the perfect opportunity to illustrate sexual equality? If that's not some kind of statement, then I'll eat my hat. If she's going to make such claims before a potentially infinitely huge audience, she'd better be open to scrutiny. And like hell she doesn't care what other people think about her -- she has a blog. She makes her living by writing about her personal life for others to read. The tagline for thechicktionary is "I'm famous on the internet for all the wrong reasons. Here's where I make it right." She constantly feels the need to defend herself. Gimme a break of that Kit Kat Bar.

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rod — Mon, 26 May 2008 02:00:17 -0000

How about the both of you (jake and sam) just shut it?

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Jaz — Sun, 25 May 2008 05:53:38 -0000

"I may have not fucked you, but at least I swallowed" greatest line ever!
But: didn't you use condoms? You do know that you can get STD's from oral sex?

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mmmaggie — Sat, 24 May 2008 14:22:41 -0000

maybe she's not awesome to you, but she has made it more than clear that she will post whatever she wants to post, especially in regards to the chicktionary, which is meant to be a more of a record of her everyday life than this blog is. if you hate or disrespect her so much, then why the fuck are you still reading it? why do you care? she obviously couldn't give a crap about what people like you think, which is evident in this recent posting on the chicktionary: http://thechicktionary.com/...

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a peer — Sat, 24 May 2008 14:05:23 -0000

incredibly on point. Lena, you may like to believe that the people who write negatively here are just haters or stupid conservatives who lack your liberated view, but they're not. Many (though of course not all) of them are intelligent, caring, open-minded people whose third person point of view can offer some well-needed perspective. They see a you that you refuse to or ignore at times. You're very quick to respond to people with defensive replies or attacks, but I rarely ever see you change your mind and accept the criticism you receive here. Being stubborn is not a strength and being strong is accepting your mistakes and trying to improve. I wish you accepted the criticism as easily you do the praise.

Like others, I wish you wrote more on other subjects. You can write well, but the sensationalist nature your posts often take on detracts from your talent rather than adds to it (regardless of the topic). Your blog has given me some perspective and I am thankful for that, but it's often despite your sensationalist topics or tirades, not because of them.

it is remarkably easy for a Harvard student to get attention for bucking tradition. Attention is not respect or admiration, and people take you less seriously for your blog, not more. I find your blog very entertaining and interesting, and that's why I read it, but as many have pointed out over time, it is because it's like watching a train wreck and little more.

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Cynictron3030 — Sat, 24 May 2008 12:45:39 -0000

"Oh my goodness, more power to you girl!"

I have the strangest feeling that our good friend here doesn't need encouragement or ego-bolstering comments. Those who read this blog religiously and hope to one day meet this blogger's sex life's denouement with the apex of their sex lives may need to say to believe it, but hell, if Lena doesn't believe, why in the name of Bhudda would she be doing it in the first place?

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adsense — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:30:08 -0000

If she's ruining her life it's her life to ruin. And if that is the case then her blog serves as a warning for posterity. But the real shame about the posting these photos is what little concern she has for the sensibilities of her readers - who, to my knowledge, never bemoaned the lack of semen in her photos. She completely disregards her current readers only to slake a thirst for notoriety. Why her friends are defending this shameless self-promotion is beyond me.

(And the idea that she only wants to make sex seem less sacred is bullshit in light of the fact that similar images exist all over the internet. Lena knows the only difference here is that as a Harvard undergrad she is bound to get more attention. What's more, why should sex be less sacred?)

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Betty Ford — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:02:16 -0000

MattieHillaire - You have articulated exactly the sentiments that I think a great many people feel regarding Lena and her "talent". Thank you for your stellar on the mark commentary. You my friend are brilliant.